Effective parenting isn’t about perfection; it’s about being adaptable: Parenting coach

Japinder Kaur, a transformation and parenting coach based in Chandigarh, recently conducted a workshop in the city to encourage parents to seek help for their children, drawing from her own life experiences. She believes that in order to unlock a brighter future for children, parents need to be empowered to nurture their potential through expert parenting coaches. She acknowledges the rewards and challenges of parenting in today’s fast-paced world, highlighting the unique pressures faced by Indian parents.

Japinder, who helps numerous parents navigate the complexities of modern parenting, emphasizes the importance of tailored one-on-one sessions to address specific needs such as improving communication and managing academic stress. She cautions parents who strive for perfection in their parenting approach, stating that effective parenting is not about being flawless but rather being knowledgeable and adaptable.

With mental health taking center stage since the onset of the pandemic, Japinder dispels the myth that only adults experience mental imbalances. She believes that the stigma surrounding therapy prevents many parents from seeking help for their children. However, she emphasizes that seeking assistance from a parenting coach is a sign of strength, not weakness, and these coaches are there to support parents in becoming the best they can be while embracing the diverse cultural tapestry of Indian parenting.

Japinder also highlights warning signs that indicate when a parent may need counseling:

1. Feeling lost and uncertain about parenting decisions.
2. Noticing consistent behavioral challenges in your child.
3. When the stress of parenting starts affecting your own mental and emotional well-being.